Stick Season (Music Video)

YouTube

2022

WISE
83%

WISE Score

A masterclass in 'Vermont-core' melancholy that is safe for the car ride but deep enough for the teenage soul.

Screenwise Verdict

Noah Kahan is essentially the patron saint of the 'sad but staying' vibe. Stick Season is a rare bird in the music video world: it’s wildly popular, genuinely artistic, and doesn't rely on shock value or sexualization to get views.

If your kid is starting to move away from 'kid music' and into the world of singer-songwriters, this is a perfect landing spot. It’s emotionally heavy but structurally light, making it a safe entry point for deeper conversations about mental health and growing up without the baggage of more explicit pop stars.

Age Fit

Best for ages 10 and up. Tweens will start to connect with the themes of feeling out of place, while it's a rare 'kid-safe' track that adults will actually want to keep on repeat.

WISE Breakdown
Wholesome
82

It is emotionally honest and avoids the toxic posturing or hyper-sexualization common in mainstream pop. It models vulnerability, though the tone is decidedly melancholy.

Imaginative
65

As a music video, it’s a passive experience, but the lyrical storytelling is top-tier. It paints a vivid picture of a specific place and time, inviting kids to think about their own 'sense of place.'

Safe
88

The content itself is very clean. The only 'edge' is a mention of alcohol (80 proof) and the inherent risks of the YouTube platform (comments and sidebar rabbit holes).

Enriching
85

High marks for emotional intelligence. It’s a great way for kids to engage with themes of transition, hometown identity, and loss in a way that feels grounded rather than dramatic.

Parent Info

Why It Might Be Great

  • Emotional literacy is the big win here; Kahan articulates that weird 'stuck' feeling better than almost anyone else in modern music.
  • The folk-pop revival sound is a refreshing break from over-produced TikTok hits, leaning on acoustic instruments and real storytelling.
  • It provides a non-toxic perspective on breakups, focusing on personal growth and the passage of time rather than spite or drama.

What to Watch For

  • The lyric 'drink alcohol 'til my breath smells like the 80 proof' is the only real content speed bump, though it's framed as a coping mechanism for sadness rather than a party vibe.
  • YouTube's comments section is active; while mostly fans sharing stories, it is unmoderated and can lead to the usual internet rabbit holes.

Conversation Starters

  • "What does 'stick season' mean to you—that time when things feel like they're waiting to happen?"
  • "Why do you think people find sad songs so comforting when they're actually feeling down?"
  • "How does the place you grow up in change how you see yourself?"
  • "Do you think the singer is actually 'stuck,' or is he just processing a change?"

Deep Dive

The Vermont-Core Phenomenon

Noah Kahan’s rise to 'folk-pop' royalty wasn't an accident. In an era of hyper-glossy digital production, Stick Season feels like a wool sweater in a world of polyester. The music video—and the song itself—captures a very specific New England transition: that bleak window between the autumn leaves falling and the first real snow. For a teenager, that's a perfect metaphor for the awkward transitions of adolescence.

Why it resonates

What makes this video worth your time isn't just the catchy chorus. It's the fact that Kahan is modeling a type of masculine vulnerability that we don't see enough of. He’s not posturing or acting like a tough guy; he’s just a guy in Vermont missing someone and feeling the weight of his hometown.

"I'll dream each night of some version of you that I might not have ever even known."

Lyrics like that are a gift for parents trying to help their kids navigate the complexities of social media-era relationships, where 'versions' of people are all we often see.

The YouTube Factor

Since this is a YouTube-hosted item, the 'safety' isn't about the video—which is basically just Noah and some scenic shots—it's about the platform. This is a great opportunity to use a 'safe' video to practice good YouTube habits. Check the sidebar, look at the related videos, and talk about how the algorithm tries to keep you clicking. But as far as the art goes? It’s a win. It’s soulful, it’s literate, and it’s a lot better than whatever 'Skibidi' nonsense might be vying for their attention.

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