Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret – WISE Score & Parent Review | Screenwise

Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret

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book2014

94%

WISE Score

4.7

Amazon

The ultimate 'am I normal?' handbook that’s been helping kids navigate bras, boys, and big questions since long before TikTok existed.

Are You There God? It's Me, Margaret

book

2014

94%

WISE Score

4.7

Amazon

The ultimate 'am I normal?' handbook that’s been helping kids navigate bras, boys, and big questions since long before TikTok existed.

4.7

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Screenwise Verdict

Judy Blume is the GOAT for a reason. While some books from the 70s feel like reading a museum exhibit, Margaret still feels like she’s sitting right next to you in the cafeteria.

It’s honest, it’s awkward, and it deals with the 'big stuff'—like faith and changing bodies—without being preachy. The 2023 movie adaptation gave it a massive second life, but the book is where the real magic is. If your kid is hitting that 'itchy' age where they’re obsessed with being 'normal,' just give them this. It’s way better than a random YouTube 'puberty hack' video.

Age Fit

Best for 9 to 13-year-olds who are starting to notice their bodies changing and wondering where they fit in the world. It’s the perfect bridge between 'little kid' books and more intense YA.

WISE Breakdown

Wholesome

It models healthy, honest self-reflection and navigates the complexities of friendship and family without being cynical. It’s about growing up with integrity.

Imaginative

While it's grounded realism, Margaret's internal dialogue and personal spiritual exploration show a high level of emotional curiosity and original thought.

Safe

It's a book about puberty. There's no violence, no gore, and no 'surprise' mature content. It’s exactly what it says on the tin: an honest look at pre-teen life.

Enriching

It is the gold standard for building empathy and helping kids understand their own bodies and spiritual questions. It’s basically a rite of passage.

Parent Info

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Why It Might Be Great

It’s 100% honest about the awkwardness of puberty without being clinical or boring.
Margaret’s 'talks with God' offer a great model for kids processing their own internal world and ethics.
It tackles the 'which religion am I?' question in a way that’s respectful, nuanced, and totally relatable.
The writing is punchy and moves fast, making it a great pick for kids who usually find 'classics' a chore.

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What to Watch For

It’s heavy on the period talk—if your kid isn't ready for that conversation, this book will definitely start it.
A few references to 70s-era social norms (like the 'bust exercises') feel a bit dated, but they're still funny and relevant to the 'fitting in' theme.

Conversation Starters

"Margaret feels like she's the last one to get her period. Do you ever feel like everyone else is 'ahead' of you on something?"
"What do you think about Margaret's choice to talk to God privately instead of picking a side between her grandparents?"
"Why do you think Nancy feels the need to act like she knows everything about being a 'grown-up' when she clearly doesn't?"
"If you moved to a new town like Margaret, what’s the first thing you’d do to try and fit in?"

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