The Upshaws

The Upshaws

show

TV-14, 2021

WISE
42%

WISE Score

7.1

IMDb

A working-class family sitcom where 'charming mess' dad Bennie tries to adult—emphasis on 'tries.' It's fine if you need background noise.

IMDb7.1
MC57
Common Sense Media
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Screenwise Verdict

Look, The Upshaws isn't offensively bad, but it's aggressively mediocre. It's the TV equivalent of eating plain crackers when you're not even hungry—it'll fill time, but you won't remember it.

The premise of a 'charming mess' trying to hold his family together could work, but the execution is tired sitcom formula with a Metacritic 57 to prove it. The show wants credit for depicting working-class Black family life, which is valuable representation, but then squanders it with lazy writing and the same old tropes.

For families, this is a hard pass until kids are 14+, and even then, you're not missing much. There are dozens of better family comedies on Netflix that actually have heart, humor, AND don't rely on dad being a perpetual screw-up for laughs. If you want a show about Black families that's actually good, try Black-ish or The Wonder Years reboot instead.

The Upshaws exists. That's about the highest praise I can muster.

Age Fit

This is really for teens 14+ and adults who want easy-watching sitcom content. Younger kids shouldn't watch due to mature themes and language. Honestly, even for teens, there are better options.

WISE Breakdown
Wholesome
58

A working-class family sitcom that attempts to model resilience and family bonds, but undercut by frequent crude humor, adult relationship drama, and a protagonist described as a 'lifelong mess.' The show does portray a Black family navigating real economic struggles with some warmth, but the tone skews more toward adult dysfunction than healthy family modeling. The 'charming but irresponsible' dad trope isn't particularly wholesome for younger viewers.

Imaginative
35

This is a traditional multi-cam sitcom format with minimal creative ambition. It follows well-worn family comedy beats without bringing fresh perspectives or imaginative storytelling. The Indianapolis working-class setting could have been mined for unique cultural texture, but the show plays it safe with standard sitcom plots. Nothing here invites curiosity, creative thinking, or exploration—it's comfort food TV at best.

Safe
52

Common Sense Media rates it 14+, and that tracks. The show contains adult language, sexual references, relationship infidelity themes, and alcohol use. While it's not graphic or violent, there's enough mature content that younger kids stumbling upon it would encounter inappropriate material. The 'sardonic sister-in-law' dynamic suggests snark and put-downs are part of the comedic formula. Not unsafe for teens, but definitely not family-friendly for younger viewers.

Enriching
48

The show does offer representation of a Black working-class family dealing with real economic pressures, which has some value. However, the 'lovable screw-up dad' premise doesn't exactly model growth or accountability. With a Metacritic score of 57 and IMDb 7.1, critics found it mediocre. There's minimal skill-building, ethical development, or meaningful takeaways beyond 'families stick together despite dad being a mess.' Entertainment value is middling—it's background noise TV, not appointment viewing.

Parent Info

Why It Might Be Great

  • Representation of a Black working-class family navigating real economic challenges
  • Wanda Sykes as the sardonic sister-in-law brings some comedic weight
  • Family-sticks-together-despite-everything messaging has its moments
  • Available on Netflix if you've exhausted other options

What to Watch For

  • Mature content throughout: sexual references, adult language, alcohol use, relationship infidelity themes
  • The 'lovable screw-up dad' trope can normalize irresponsibility rather than model growth
  • Lots of snark and put-downs as comedic devices
  • Common Sense Media says 14+ for good reason—not appropriate for younger kids

Conversation Starters

  • "Bennie means well but keeps messing up—how do you balance loving someone with holding them accountable?"
  • "The family deals with money stress a lot. What are some ways families can support each other during tough times?"
  • "Do you think sitcoms like this make dysfunction seem funnier than it actually is in real life?"
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