No Hard Feelings

No Hard Feelings

movie

R, 2023

WISE
52%

WISE Score

71

Avg. Tomatometer

Jennifer Lawrence goes full-throttle in this R-rated throwback about a woman hired to 'deflower' a dork to save her house.

IMDb6.3
RT Critics71%
MC59
Common Sense Media
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Screenwise Verdict

No Hard Feelings is a surprisingly charming relic: a mid-budget, R-rated studio comedy that doesn't rely entirely on poop jokes. It’s basically a 2000s sex comedy with a 2020s conscience. Jennifer Lawrence is fantastic, and Andrew Barth Feldman holds his own as the introverted Percy.

If you're looking for something wholesome, keep moving. But if you want a movie that tackles helicopter parenting and the terror of leaving your hometown with a side of raunchy slapstick, this is a solid pick for a Friday night once the younger kids are in bed.

Age Fit

This is strictly for older teens (16+) and adults. The nudity and sexual themes are the primary gatekeepers, but the humor also relies on understanding adult desperation and social anxiety.

WISE Breakdown
Wholesome
45

While the movie eventually lands on a sweet message about friendship and independence, the core premise—hiring a woman to 'date' a teenager—is intentionally cringe-inducing and morally murky.

Imaginative
52

It's a standard R-rated studio comedy setup. It gets points for subverting some tropes, but it isn't reinventing the wheel or pushing creative boundaries.

Safe
35

Contains full-frontal female nudity (a very specific, high-energy beach fight scene), significant sexual dialogue, and constant profanity. Definitely not for the younger crowd.

Enriching
58

It offers a decent critique of helicopter parenting and the anxiety of the 'failure to launch' generation, showing that real growth requires actual risk.

Parent Info

Why It Might Be Great

  • Jennifer Lawrence carries the movie with genuine comedic chops and zero fear of looking ridiculous.
  • It avoids the 'creepy' trap by focusing on the unexpected friendship between the leads rather than just the raunchy premise.
  • The movie serves as a solid critique of over-parenting and the bubble many Gen Z kids are raised in.
  • It's a rare theatrical R-rated comedy that actually feels like it has a budget and a soul.

What to Watch For

  • The beach scene features full-frontal nudity during a fight; it's played for laughs, but it's very much there.
  • The power dynamic is inherently weird, and while the movie addresses it, the 'hiring a sex worker/date' plot might be a hard pass for some.
  • There is a cringe factor that is dialed to 11 in the first half—if your kid (or you) can't handle awkward social situations, this will be a tough watch.

Conversation Starters

  • "Do you think Percy’s parents were helping him or hurting him by trying to control his social life?"
  • "Why was Maddie so desperate to keep her house, and was the trade-off she made worth it?"
  • "What does it actually mean to be 'ready' for adulthood or college?"
  • "How did the friendship between Maddie and Percy change them both by the end?"

Deep Dive

The Return of the Raunchy Comedy

For a while, it felt like the R-rated comedy was dead, buried under a mountain of direct-to-streaming filler. No Hard Feelings tries to bring it back to the big screen, and for the most part, it succeeds by leaning into the charisma of its leads. Jennifer Lawrence plays Maddie, a woman whose life is essentially a series of fires she’s trying to put out with a thimble of water. When she agrees to 'date' Percy in exchange for a Buick Regal, the movie sets up what could have been a very gross-out premise.

However, the film is smarter than its trailer suggests. It spends more time on the awkwardness of human connection than on the mechanics of the 'job.' Percy isn't just a nerd caricature; he’s a kid paralyzed by the expectations of parents who have smoothed over every bump in his life until he’s forgotten how to walk.

"The movie works because it acknowledges that both characters are 'losers' in their own way—Maddie is stuck in the past, and Percy is terrified of the future."

The standout sequence—the aforementioned naked beach fight—is a litmus test for the viewer. If you can handle the sheer absurdity and the nudity involved in a woman fighting off teenagers while completely exposed, you’ll enjoy the rest of the ride. It’s chaotic, brave, and genuinely funny in a way that feels refreshing compared to the sanitized comedies we usually get now.

Ultimately, it's a story about the necessity of 'hard feelings'—the pain, rejection, and awkwardness that parents try to shield their kids from, but which are actually required to become a functional human being.

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