Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

Maybe You Should Talk to Someone

book

2019

WISE
90%

WISE Score

4.6

Amazon

A therapist takes us behind the couch (and onto her own) to show that everyone is a bit of a mess, and that’s actually okay.

Amazon4.6
Common Sense Media

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Screenwise Verdict

This is a rare bird: a self-help book that doesn't feel like a lecture. Gottlieb is a fantastic writer who manages to be clinical and vulnerable at the same time.

It’s basically the opposite of 'brain rot.' If you’ve ever wondered what your therapist is actually thinking while you’re talking, or if you just want to feel a bit more human, read this. It’s not for kids, but for parents, it’s a great way to sharpen your empathy tools.

Age Fit

Best for ages 16 to 99. This is an adult book that a mature, psychology-curious teen would find fascinating, but it'll be a total snooze-fest (and too heavy) for middle schoolers.

WISE Breakdown
Wholesome
88

It’s centered on healing, radical honesty, and the messy process of becoming a better human. While it deals with heavy realities like grief and divorce, the tone is consistently grounded and compassionate.

Imaginative
75

While it's a nonfiction memoir, Gottlieb’s ability to weave multiple narratives together invites a lot of curiosity about the internal lives of others. It’s a masterclass in perspective-shifting.

Safe
82

Completely safe for its intended adult/teen audience. No shock value or toxicity, though it does discuss terminal illness, death, and adult relationship issues which might be heavy or confusing for younger kids.

Enriching
96

This is pure emotional protein. It builds empathy, explains the mechanics of why we act the way we do, and offers genuine insights into mental health without being preachy.

Parent Info

Why It Might Be Great

  • Total demystification of therapy—it makes seeking help feel normal and even cool.
  • Gottlieb is a great storyteller who makes case studies feel like a binge-worthy Netflix drama.
  • High 'emotional intelligence' payoff that helps you understand your own quirks and patterns.
  • It’s surprisingly funny despite the heavy topics like terminal illness and heartbreak.

What to Watch For

  • One patient has terminal cancer, which is handled beautifully but is definitely a tear-jerker.
  • Discussion of adult relationship issues, including infidelity and divorce.
  • Occasional adult language used in the context of therapy sessions.

Conversation Starters

  • "Why do you think it's so hard for people to tell the truth about how they're feeling?"
  • "If you could talk to a therapist about one thing without feeling judged, what would it be?"
  • "Do you think people can actually change their personalities, or are we just stuck with who we are?"

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