The Patience Test
The hardest part of this kit isn't the chemistry; it's the waiting. Once you mix the solution and drop in the seeding granules, the kit needs to sit undisturbed. For a ten-year-old, 'undisturbed' is a relative term. If the container is bumped, jiggled, or poked with a finger to see if it's 'hard yet,' the crystal structure collapses and you end up with a jar of colorful sand. This makes it a great exercise in delayed gratification.
Real Science, Real Mess
This is a real chemistry set, which means it uses real chemicals. The primary ingredient is usually Monoammonium Phosphate. It's not toxic in the 'call poison control' sense for skin contact, but it shouldn't be ingested, and it shouldn't get in eyes.
More importantly for your kitchen, the dyes used are incredibly concentrated. If your kid is doing this on a marble or granite countertop, put down a tray or a thick layer of newspaper first. Once that blue or red liquid hits a porous surface, you've just permanently redecorated your kitchen.
Why the Deluxe Kit Matters
4M sells smaller versions of this, but the Deluxe kit is the one to get because of the display domes. Without them, these crystals are surprisingly fragile and prone to 'blooming' (growing white fuzzy salt deposits) if the humidity in your house changes. The domes turn a science experiment into a permanent collection piece, which gives the kid a much larger sense of accomplishment.