TL;DR: John Hughes movies are the cultural DNA of every teen movie that followed. If you want to connect with your Gen Alpha teen over something other than a 15-second TikTok trend, these are your best bet. Start with The Breakfast Club for the "feels," Ferris Bueller's Day Off for the vibes, and Pretty in Pink for the soundtrack. Just be ready to pause and talk about some very dated 80s tropes regarding race and consent.
By the time kids hit 2026, they’ve seen it all. They’ve grown up with the hyper-speed editing of YouTube creators and the algorithmic chaos of social media. But there’s a reason why, even now, "vintage" 80s aesthetics are still trending. Whether it’s the fashion or the synth-heavy soundtracks, Gen Alpha has a weirdly high tolerance for the decade of neon.
John Hughes didn’t just make movies; he created a "Shermer, Illinois" universe where being a teenager felt like the most important thing in the world. For a generation of parents, these films were our manual for navigating high school. For our kids, they are a window into a world before smartphones—where if you missed a call on the landline, you actually missed it, and if you were stuck in detention, you had nothing to do but talk to each other.
If you’re looking to bridge the gap between your world and theirs, a John Hughes marathon is a solid intentional parenting move. It’s a chance to move past the "brain rot" of short-form content and settle into a story that actually has something to say about identity.
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Despite the lack of iPhones, the core "teen" problems haven't changed. Gen Alpha is dealing with the exact same stuff the "Brat Pack" was:
- The Pressure to Perform: Whether it’s grades or "clout," the stress of expectation is universal.
- The Clique Culture: Even if cliques have moved from the cafeteria to Discord servers, the feeling of being an outsider is the same.
- Parental Disconnect: That classic Hughes theme of "parents just don't get it" is timeless (even if we are the parents now).
Ages 13+ This is the gold standard. Five kids—the Brain, the Athlete, the Basket Case, the Princess, and the Criminal—stuck in Saturday detention. Why it works: It’s almost entirely dialogue-driven. In an era where kids are used to constant visual stimulation, the slow burn of these characters peeling back their layers is actually refreshing. The "Screenwise" Take: It’s a masterclass in empathy. By the end, they realize they are all more than the labels society (and their parents) put on them. Watch out for: There is a decent amount of "80s edgy" swearing and a very uncomfortable scene where Bender hides under Claire’s desk. It’s a perfect moment to talk about boundaries and consent.
Ages 10+ If The Breakfast Club is the "therapy" movie, Ferris is the "manifestation" movie. Ferris is the kid every Gen Alpha wants to be: effortlessly cool, tech-savvy (for 1986), and able to bypass any system. Why it works: The fourth-wall breaking feels very "vlogger-esque." Ferris talking directly to the camera is a precursor to the "Get Ready With Me" (GRWM) style of content kids consume today. The "Screenwise" Take: While Ferris is the star, Cameron is the heart. His struggle with his father’s emotional absence and his own anxiety is something a lot of modern kids—who are part of the most "anxious" generation in history—will actually relate to.
Ages 12+ This is the "aesthetic" choice. Andie (Molly Ringwald) making her own clothes is basically the 1986 version of a "thrift flip" or "upcycling" video. Why it works: It tackles classism in a way that isn't too heavy-handed. The "Richies" vs. the kids from the "wrong side of the tracks" is a dynamic that still exists, even if it looks different now. The "Screenwise" Take: Duckie is a polarizing character. Is he a loyal best friend or a "nice guy" who doesn't respect Andie's romantic choices? It’s a great conversation starter about the "friend zone" and healthy friendships.
Ages 12+ Often overlooked, this is actually one of Hughes' best scripts. It’s a bit of a gender-swapped Pretty in Pink, featuring a tomboy drummer (Watts) who is secretly in love with her best friend, Keith. Why it works: It feels more modern than the others. Watts is a great character for kids who don't fit into traditional "girly" or "jock" boxes. The "Screenwise" Take: The ending is significantly more satisfying than Pretty in Pink. It’s about being true to yourself rather than trying to fit into the popular crowd.
Ages 14+ (With Heavy Supervision) We have to talk about this one. It’s a classic, but it’s also the most "problematic" of the bunch. The "No-BS" Review: Honestly? Parts of this movie are simply unwatchable in 2026. The character of Long Duk Dong is a racist caricature that hasn't aged well at all. More importantly, there is a plot point involving a character "giving" his girlfriend to a geek while she's unconscious. The Screenwise Recommendation: If you watch this, do not just let it play. You have to pause it. Use it as a "What’s wrong with this picture?" moment. It’s a powerful way to show how much our cultural standards for consent and respect have (thankfully) evolved.
While these movies are rated PG or PG-13, the 80s "PG" was a different beast.
- Language: Expect "r-words," homophobic slurs used as casual insults, and a lot of "casual" misogyny.
- Substance Use: Underage drinking and smoking are portrayed as standard teen behavior. In The Breakfast Club, the group gets high in the library. It’s not portrayed as a "moral failing," but rather a bonding experience.
- Body Image: There are frequent comments about weight and appearance that would be flagged immediately today.
If you want to move beyond "that was a cool movie," try these prompts during the credits:
- On Identity: "Which of the five kids in the library do you think you’d be? Or is the whole 'clique' thing totally different at your school?"
- On Technology: "How would Ferris Bueller be different if everyone had a smartphone and Life360? Could he even get away with it today?"
- On Social Pressure: "Andie felt a lot of pressure to change who she was to fit in with the 'Richies.' Do you feel that kind of pressure on social media?"
- On "The Cringe": "What was the most 'cringe' thing about how they treated people in the 80s?" (This is the easiest way to get a Gen Alpha kid talking).
If your kid finds the 80s pacing too slow, or if you want to explore modern "spiritual successors" to John Hughes, check these out:
- Lady Bird: For that same "I need to get out of this town" energy.
- Eighth Grade: A brutally honest look at the Gen Alpha/Late Gen Z middle school experience.
- Stardew Valley: If they want that "small town, big feelings" vibe but in a game format.
- The Edge of Seventeen: Probably the closest thing we have to a modern-day Breakfast Club.
Watching John Hughes movies with your teen isn't just about nostalgia; it’s about validating their experience. It’s showing them that while the tech changes, the "suckiness" of being fifteen is a universal human experience.
Skip Sixteen Candles if you aren't in the mood for a lecture on social justice, but definitely queue up The Breakfast Club. It’s the closest thing to a "vibe check" you can have with your kid while sitting on the couch.
Next Steps:
- Pick a Friday night.
- Order pizza (no phones allowed during the movie).
- Start with Ferris Bueller for a "win" and see if they’re down for the heavier stuff next week.
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