Not Just Kidding

Not Just Kidding

book

1999, Fiction

WISE
42%

WISE Score

A 1990s college football romance that feels like a time capsule of Maryland sports and summer jobs.

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Screenwise Verdict

Unless you have a very specific connection to the University of Maryland or a deep love for obscure late-90s romance, this is a skip. It’s wholesome enough, but it suffers from a massive 'relevance penalty'—modern readers will likely find the pacing slow and the characters a bit one-dimensional.

It’s essentially a 'dad-vibes' sports romance from a quarter-century ago. It’s safe for the shelf, but don't expect it to compete with the books your kid is actually excited about.

Age Fit

Best for ages 14 and up. It’s a college-aged romance, so while it's 'classical,' the themes of football, university life, and dating are aimed at teens and young adults.

WISE Breakdown
Wholesome
65

It frames itself as a 'classical romance' with a focus on football and summer work, avoiding the high-drama toxicity of modern teen soaps.

Imaginative
30

Relies heavily on standard college romance and sports tropes without much subversion or unique world-building.

Safe
90

Described as a 'classical romance' from 1999; books in this niche and era are typically light on explicit content, though some mild language or 'growing on you' physical attraction is present.

Enriching
40

Touches on themes of dedication to sports and finding love during a summer job, but it's primarily light entertainment.

Parent Info

Why It Might Be Great

  • Sports focus that actually spends time on the linebacker's season and the grind of college football.
  • Local flavor for anyone familiar with the Northern Chesapeake Bay or Elk Neck State Park.
  • Clean romance vibes for readers who want a 'love at first sight' story without the edge of modern YA.
  • Nostalgic tone that captures a pre-smartphone era of summer jobs and meeting people in person.

What to Watch For

  • Dated tropes regarding gender and romance that might feel a bit 'eye-roll' to a 2026 teenager.
  • Niche appeal—if you aren't into Maryland football or the specific setting, the plot is very thin.

Conversation Starters

  • "Do you think 'love at first sight' is a real thing, or just a movie trope?"
  • "How different do you think Kirk's summer job would be today with a smartphone in his pocket?"
  • "Would you rather read about a sport you play yourself, or something totally new?"
  • "What makes a character 'unexplainable' like C.J. in a way that makes you like them?"

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