I Am Not Okay With This

I Am Not Okay With This

show

TV-MA, 2020, Drama, Comedy

WISE
48%

WISE Score

86

Avg. Tomatometer

Superpowered teen angst meets LGBTQ+ coming-of-age, then Netflix cancelled it mid-story. Cool premise, frustrating ending.

IMDb7.5
RT Critics86%
MC67
TMDB8.0
Common Sense Media
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Screenwise Verdict

Here's the thing: I Am Not Okay With This had real potential. The premise is solid—telekinetic teen dealing with grief, identity, and an unrequited crush on her best friend while trying not to accidentally explode things with her mind. It's moody, it's weird, it tackles LGBTQ+ themes naturally, and it uses superpowers as a legitimately interesting metaphor for feeling out of control during adolescence.

But Netflix cancelled it after one season, ending on a massive cliffhanger with a literal head explosion and zero resolution. So you're investing in a story that goes nowhere. For older teens who can handle mature content and don't mind incomplete narratives, there's value here in the themes and representation. But the graphic violence, dark tone, likely strong language and sexual content, plus that frustrating non-ending make this a tough recommend.

If your teen is 16+, loves dark coming-of-age stories, and can accept that this is essentially a well-made pilot for a show that never got made, go for it. Everyone else? Maybe skip the inevitable disappointment.

Age Fit

Best for mature 15-17 year olds who can handle intense themes, graphic content, and the frustration of an unresolved story. The LGBTQ+ themes, dark tone, and supernatural violence make this too intense for middle schoolers, while the high school setting and cancelled status limit appeal for adults.

WISE Breakdown
Wholesome
45

Coming-of-age story centered on a teen navigating typical high school struggles (crushes, family drama, identity), but the 'angsty' descriptor and themes of unrequited same-sex crush plus uncontrollable superpowers suggest emotional intensity and turmoil rather than modeling cooperation or emotional health. Likely includes darker teen themes, conflict, and internal struggle rather than balanced, emotionally healthy content.

Imaginative
72

The supernatural/superpowers element layered onto a realistic teen drama offers creative originality. Mixing mundane high school life with budding telekinetic abilities is an imaginative premise that invites curiosity about how these worlds collide. The sci-fi/fantasy genre blend with grounded drama shows creative ambition, though execution details are unknown.

Safe
38

Without a content rating provided, but knowing this is a Netflix teen drama with 'angsty' themes, superpowers that need 'reining in,' and a TMDB rating suggesting mature teen content, this likely contains language, sexual content (exploring LGBTQ+ identity/crushes), potentially disturbing supernatural violence, and intense emotional scenes. The show was cancelled after one season ending on a cliffhanger with a graphic head-explosion scene. Not appropriate for younger viewers and contains surprise intense content.

Enriching
58

Explores identity, LGBTQ+ themes, grief (dead father), mental health struggles, and the metaphor of superpowers as uncontrollable emotions during adolescence. Could spark meaningful conversations about self-acceptance and managing overwhelming feelings. However, the show's abrupt cancellation means no narrative resolution or complete character growth arc, limiting its enriching potential. Entertainment value exists but incomplete storytelling undermines lasting impact.

Parent Info

Why It Might Be Great

  • Unique blend of grounded teen drama with supernatural elements—superpowers as metaphor for uncontrollable adolescent emotions is clever
  • Explores LGBTQ+ identity (unrequited same-sex crush) in a normalized, integrated way within the larger story
  • Short season (7 episodes) makes it digestible for teens who want something bingeable
  • Deals with real issues like grief, family dysfunction, and feeling like an outsider in authentic ways
  • Strong TMDB rating (8.0) suggests fans found it compelling and well-executed

What to Watch For

  • Graphic violence including a shocking head-explosion scene in the finale—not for squeamish viewers
  • Mature language, likely sexual content/themes, and intense emotional situations throughout
  • The show was cancelled after one season ending on a major cliffhanger with zero resolution—prepare for frustration
  • Dark themes: dead parent, mental health struggles, feeling out of control, social isolation
  • The 'angsty' tone means this leans into discomfort and turmoil rather than feel-good moments

Conversation Starters

  • "Syd's powers seem tied to her emotions—have you ever felt like your feelings were so big you couldn't control them?"
  • "The show explores having a crush on your best friend. How do you think that complicates a friendship?"
  • "If you suddenly developed a superpower you couldn't control, what would scare you most about it?"
  • "Syd's dealing with her dad's death while trying to be normal at school. How do you think grief affects how we act around friends?"
  • "The show got cancelled with no ending—does that change how you feel about watching something?"
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