Dash & Lily

Dash & Lily

show

TV-14, 2020, Comedy, Drama

WISE
75%

WISE Score

100

Avg. Tomatometer

Two NYC teens fall for each other through dares and messages in a red notebook passed around the city—it's rom-com meets scavenger hunt.

IMDb7.5
RT Critics100%
MC80
TMDB7.8
Common Sense Media
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Screenwise Verdict

Dash & Lily is a genuinely charming holiday show that feels like a warm hug and a love letter to NYC bookstores. The red notebook concept is creative and refreshing in our hyper-digital age, and the show models vulnerability, growth, and taking chances on people who are different from you.

It's not groundbreaking television, but it's sweet without being cloying, and the romance is age-appropriate for tweens and teens. The main caution is that Dash's backstory touches on parental abandonment and family dysfunction, which could be heavy for sensitive kids. But overall, it's a solid pick for families with older kids looking for holiday content that's more sophisticated than Hallmark but not as edgy as some teen dramas.

The 2020 release means it still feels current and watchable—no outdated references or cringe fashion. If your kid is in that sweet spot of wanting romance but not being ready for anything too mature, this hits the mark.

Age Fit

Best for ages 11-16 who are ready for sweet, PG-13-ish romance and can handle some heavier emotional themes about family and loneliness. Younger kids might find it slow or not quite get the romance; older teens might find it a bit too wholesome.

WISE Breakdown
Wholesome
78

A sweet holiday romance that centers on two teens connecting through thoughtful dares and messages rather than physical attraction. Models kindness, vulnerability, and the courage to step outside comfort zones. The opposites-attract dynamic (cynical vs. sunny) offers good balance, though Dash's cynicism could occasionally feel a bit heavy for younger viewers. Overall tone is warm and emotionally healthy with positive family relationships shown.

Imaginative
82

The red notebook concept is genuinely creative—a scavenger hunt romance across NYC that encourages curiosity, risk-taking, and stepping into the unknown. The show invites viewers to think about creative ways to connect with others and explore their city. The dares are imaginative and the premise feels fresh in an era of digital communication, celebrating analog connection and adventure.

Safe
75

Generally safe holiday fare with no graphic content, violence, or explicit material. Some mild teen romance elements (kissing, hand-holding) and occasional references to family tension/divorce. Dash's cynicism touches on loneliness and parental abandonment themes that could be sensitive for some kids. A few scenes in crowded NYC locations and some mild peril during dares, but nothing shocking or traumatic. The show aired on Netflix without major content warnings.

Enriching
70

Offers meaningful themes about vulnerability, taking chances, and being open to people who are different from you. Celebrates reading, bookstores, and thoughtful communication. Shows healthy risk-taking and personal growth as both characters push beyond their comfort zones. However, it's primarily entertainment—a feel-good holiday romance—rather than deeply educational content. Still, it models emotional intelligence and the value of genuine connection over superficial interaction.

Parent Info

Why It Might Be Great

  • Celebrates analog connection and creativity in a digital world—the notebook concept is genuinely charming
  • Models healthy vulnerability and stepping outside your comfort zone to grow
  • Great for tweens/teens ready for sweet romance without anything too mature
  • NYC at Christmas is gorgeous, and the show has cozy holiday vibes without being saccharine
  • Encourages reading, bookstores, and thoughtful communication over texting

What to Watch For

  • Dash's backstory includes parental abandonment and some family dysfunction that could be heavy
  • It's a romance, so expect kissing and hand-holding—nothing explicit but definitely aimed at the tween+ crowd
  • Some mild peril during dares (navigating NYC, interacting with strangers)
  • Cynicism vs. optimism dynamic might feel a bit repetitive at times

Conversation Starters

  • "If you had to leave dares in a notebook for someone, what would you challenge them to do?"
  • "Do you think Dash and Lily would have connected if they'd just texted instead of using the notebook?"
  • "Which character are you more like—cynical Dash or sunny Lily? Or somewhere in between?"
  • "What's something you've done that pushed you out of your comfort zone, like their dares?"
  • "Would you want to go on a scavenger hunt date like this in real life?"
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