You're SO Amazing!

You're SO Amazing!

book

2023

WISE
91%

WISE Score

4.6

Amazon

A sharp, funny reality check for anyone who thinks a kid with a disability is 'heroic' just for eating a sandwich.

Amazon4.6
Common Sense Media

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Screenwise Verdict

James Catchpole is doing the heavy lifting here. Most books about disability are either clinical or painfully sappy, but this one is actually funny and a bit biting.

It follows Joe, a boy with one leg, who is constantly being told how 'amazing' or 'brave' he is just for playing. It’s the perfect antidote to the saccharine 'participation trophy' vibe of modern inclusion. Joe doesn't want to be your inspiration; he just wants to play. It's essential reading for the playground set and a great way to ensure your kid isn't 'that kid' who makes things weird for others.

Age Fit

Perfect for the 3-to-8-year-old crowd. It's a picture book, so older kids might think they've outgrown the format, but frankly, most adults could stand to read this one too.

WISE Breakdown
Wholesome
92

It models healthy boundaries and self-advocacy. Joe, the main character, is allowed to be annoyed by patronizing behavior, which is a great lesson in emotional honesty.

Imaginative
74

While it's a grounded, realistic story, it asks kids to perform the imaginative leap of seeing the world through someone else's eyes—specifically someone tired of being a walking cliché.

Safe
98

It's a picture book about a kid at a playground. Zero safety concerns, no surprises, just high-quality social-emotional content.

Enriching
96

This is a masterclass in teaching disability etiquette without being preachy. It dismantles the 'inspiration porn' trope in a way that's accessible for five-year-olds.

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Why It Might Be Great

  • It tackles the 'inspiration porn' trope head-on with humor instead of a lecture.
  • Joe is a relatable, slightly salty protagonist who just wants to be a kid.
  • Teaches kids (and their parents) that disabled people don't exist to make non-disabled people feel good.
  • The illustrations are vibrant and keep the tone light while the message hits home.
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What to Watch For

  • It might make you feel a little called out if you've ever called a stranger 'brave' for just living their life.
  • The nuance of 'ironic praise' might need a little explaining for the very youngest readers.

Conversation Starters

  • "Why does Joe get so annoyed when people call him 'amazing' for doing normal stuff?"
  • "Have you ever had someone cheer for you when you were just trying to mind your own business?"
  • "How do you think Joe wants people to talk to him instead?"
  • "If you saw Joe at the park, what would be a better way to start a conversation than calling him a hero?"

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