If you want to understand why middle school feels like a gladiator arena, this is your manual. Even though it was written in 2002, the human psychology of cliques, 'messing,' and social posturing hasn't changed a bit—only the platforms have shifted from the cafeteria to the group chat.

It's a must-read for any parent who feels out of the loop. It’s direct, slightly clinical but deeply empathetic, and it gives you the language to talk about things your kid might not even have words for yet. Just be prepared to explain what a 'three-way call' was.