This is an important book. A National Book Award finalist that finally gives voice to Mexican American teens navigating impossible family expectations, grief, and mental health. Sánchez doesn't pull punches—Julia's depression is real, her suicide attempt is explicit, and the family dysfunction is painful to witness.
But here's the thing: it's also darkly funny, sharply observed, and ultimately hopeful. Julia wants to be a writer, she falls in love, she figures out that her 'perfect' sister was just as trapped by expectations as she is. The book validates that healing takes time and therapy helps.
That said, this is NOT for younger teens or middle schoolers. The content warnings are serious: suicide attempt, self-harm, sexual assault, explicit language, sexual content. One review recommends 13+ but honestly, 14+ feels more appropriate unless you have a particularly mature 13-year-old.
If your teen is ready for it, this is the kind of book that can be life-changing—especially for kids who feel crushed by family or cultural expectations. Just make sure they're emotionally prepared for the journey.






