The Perfect Find

The Perfect Find

movie

TV-MA, 2023, Comedy, Drama

WISE
35%

WISE Score

72

Avg. Tomatometer

A formulaic rom-com about a fashion exec falling for her boss's much-younger son—with enough sexual content to earn its TV-MA rating.

IMDb5.2
RT Critics72%
MC57
Common Sense Media
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Screenwise Verdict

Look, this is a perfectly serviceable Netflix rom-com for adults who want something light and romantic on a Friday night. But let's be clear: it's not for kids, not for teens, and based on that 5.2 IMDb rating, maybe not even for adults with high standards.

The sexual content is explicit enough to make Common Sense Media flag it for 15+, but the implied oral sex scenes and post-coital bedroom moments really push it toward 17+. Add in the strong language, substance use, and workplace power dynamics, and you've got a movie that should stay firmly in the adult viewing category.

The bigger issue? It's just not that good. With a Metacritic score of 57 and mixed reviews, this feels like the kind of rom-com that gets lost in the Netflix shuffle. Predictable plot, formulaic beats, and nothing particularly memorable to set it apart from dozens of other streaming rom-coms.

If you're looking for a rom-com for family movie night, keep scrolling. If you're an adult who needs background noise while folding laundry, sure, go for it. Just don't expect anything groundbreaking.

Age Fit

This is strictly adult content—Common Sense Media recommends 15+ but honestly, the sexual content and themes make it more appropriate for 17+. It's a date-night rom-com for grown-ups, not family viewing.

WISE Breakdown
Wholesome
42

This rom-com centers on a workplace romance with significant age gap dynamics and power imbalance (boss's son). While it explores themes of second chances and career reinvention, the relationship is kept secret and involves considerable sexual content. The emotional core is adult-focused with drinking to excess, edibles, and relationship drama that doesn't model particularly healthy dynamics for younger viewers.

Imaginative
38

A fairly formulaic romantic comedy that hits predictable beats: career woman falls for younger coworker, secret romance, complications ensue. The fashion industry setting offers some visual appeal, but the plot is standard rom-com territory without much originality. IMDb's 5.2 rating and Metacritic's 57 suggest it doesn't bring fresh ideas to the genre.

Safe
15

TV-MA rated with significant sexual content including passionate kissing, post-coital scenes, and two scenes of implied oral sex. Strong language throughout including 'f--k,' the 'N' word, 's--t,' 'goddamn,' 'bitch,' and 'a--hole.' Adults drink to excess, smoke, and consume edibles. Common Sense Media recommends 15+ specifically due to these mature elements. This is clearly adult content that would be inappropriate for children to encounter unexpectedly.

Enriching
45

Offers some representation with a Black female lead navigating career challenges and ageism in the fashion industry. Touches on themes of reinvention, taking risks, and pursuing happiness after setbacks. However, the execution is middling based on mixed reviews (72% RT critics, 5.2 IMDb), suggesting it doesn't deliver particularly meaningful insights beyond surface-level rom-com beats.

Parent Info

Why It Might Be Great

  • Features a Black female lead navigating career reinvention and ageism in the fashion industry
  • Explores themes of second chances and taking risks on love and career
  • Fashion industry setting provides visual appeal and workplace dynamics
  • Addresses age-gap relationships and generational differences in modern romance

What to Watch For

  • TV-MA rating for a reason: explicit sexual scenes including implied oral sex, post-coital bedroom scenes, and passionate make-out sessions
  • Strong language throughout including F-bombs, the N-word, and other profanity
  • Adults drinking to excess, smoking, and consuming edibles
  • Workplace power dynamics and secret relationship that involves deception
  • Mediocre reviews (5.2 on IMDb) suggest it's a pretty forgettable entry in the rom-com genre

Conversation Starters

  • "What do you think about workplace romances? Where's the line between acceptable and problematic?"
  • "The main character faces ageism in her industry. How do you think age affects career opportunities today?"
  • "Is keeping a relationship secret ever justified, or does it always lead to problems?"
  • "How would you handle a situation where your personal life conflicts with your professional goals?"

Deep Dive

The "Vibe" vs. The Reality

On paper, this movie has everything that should make a streaming hit: high-fashion wardrobes, a glossy New York backdrop, and Gabrielle Union playing a powerhouse trying to reclaim her throne. It looks like a high-budget editorial come to life. But when you actually sit down to watch, the friction between the polished aesthetic and the script becomes obvious.

Critics were relatively kind to this one—that 72% on Rotten Tomatoes suggests they appreciated the attempt at a sophisticated Black romance—but the 5.2 IMDb score from actual viewers tells the real story. It’s a movie that struggles to find its identity. It wants to be a witty workplace comedy, a steamy age-gap romance, and a serious drama about ageism all at once. Because it tries to do so much, it ends up feeling a bit thin in every department.

Not Your Average Rom-Com Heat

The TV-MA rating isn't just there for a few stray curse words. While many Netflix romances play it safe with a PG-13 vibe, this one leans into adult territory. We aren't just talking about suggestive dancing; the film includes explicit bedroom scenes and sequences involving characters using edibles.

If your teenager sees the thumbnail and thinks it looks like a fun fashion flick, you need to be the one to tell them it’s closer to a spicy beach read than a Disney Channel original. If they are looking for something romantic but a bit more age-appropriate, you're better off checking out Netflix's Teen Movies: What Parents Need to Know Before Hitting Play to find something that doesn't involve implied oral sex in the first act.

The Career Comeback Hook

The most interesting part of the film isn't actually the romance; it’s the workplace drama. Watching a woman in her 40s try to navigate a youth-obsessed industry after a public failure is a story that resonates. It captures that specific anxiety of being "overqualified" but "under-connected" in a world that moved on while you were away.

Jenna’s struggle to prove she still has "it" while working for a boss who clearly wants to see her fail is the most grounded part of the movie. It’s just a shame that this compelling narrative often gets sidelined for a secret relationship that feels more like a plot device than a grand passion. The chemistry between the leads is there, but the "boss’s son" trope adds a layer of messiness that makes the main character’s professional comeback feel self-sabotaged rather than empowered.

Who is This Actually For?

This is a "laundry movie." It’s perfect for when you want something beautiful to look at and a plot you can follow even if you leave the room to switch the dryer for ten minutes. It’s for the viewer who loves the idea of a fashion-world romance but doesn't want to think too hard about the logistics of the secret dating.

If you’re a fan of Gabrielle Union, her performance is the anchor that keeps the movie from drifting away entirely. She brings a level of gravitas to the role that the script doesn't always deserve. Just keep the remote handy if the kids walk in—this isn't the one for a multi-generational movie night.

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