Look, this book does exactly what it sets out to do: provide frank, comprehensive, shame-free information about LGBTQ+ identity and sexuality for teens who desperately need it. For a 15-year-old questioning their sexuality or a high schooler wanting to understand their gay friend's experience, this could genuinely be transformative.
But let's be clear—the parent reviews calling it 'borderline pornographic' aren't entirely off base. The sexual content is explicit and detailed in ways that will make many parents uncomfortable. That's by design: Juno Dawson wanted to create the resource she wished she'd had as a teen, with no topic off-limits.
The question isn't whether this is a 'good' book—for its intended audience, it absolutely is. The question is whether your specific teen is ready for this level of frankness, and whether you want to be the one introducing these topics or letting this book do it. Preview it first. If your teen is 14+, actively exploring questions about identity, and you're comfortable with comprehensive sex ed, this is invaluable. If they're younger or you prefer a gentler approach, wait a few years.






